The Journal

Written slowly, read quietly.

Essays on partnership, compatibility and privacy for people whose lives do not resemble the advice usually written about them.

Forthcoming

Compatibility is a discipline, not a feeling

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On being unsearchable: privacy as a way of living

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The partnership question founders ask too late

Forthcoming

Two calendars, one life: partnership across time zones

Forthcoming

What fifteen years of dating technology taught us about judgment

Forthcoming

The Journal is published irregularly, and only when there is something worth saying.

Correspondence

Written for members. Available to those considering one.